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Sipit Pribumi, Kolonial Lokal

I'm not a big fan of the new Governor, tapi saya termasuk yang merasa aneh ketika ada yang memasalahkan bahkan melapor isi pidato yang berisi kata "pribumi" itu

Dari segi sudut pandang pelapor, saya bukan "pribumi". Tetapi saya juga tetap merasa sangat biasa-biasa saja ketika ada yang menggunakan diksi "pribumi" di dalamnya

Saya tak ingin ikut-ikutan membahas definisi dari segi bahasa, atau dari segi politik, sebab sudah banyak insight yang ditulis berkaitan dengan itu, saya hanya ingin berbagi

Saya lahir dan besar di Palembang, kota dimana anda akan dengan sangat mudah menemukan orang sipit dan putih di tengah kota, pinggir, atau pinggir sekali

Itu menandakan sejarah panjang kaum Cina di Palembang, semenjak zaman Cheng Ho, hingga walisongo. Dari hubungan dagang hingga tentu saja penyebaran agama

Sipit Pribumi, Kolonial Lokal

Menariknya, dulu ketika saya belum Muslim, mereka bisa membedakan mana sipit "pribumi" dan sipit yang bukan "pribumi", walau penampakannya sama

Selepas Muslim, saya baru paham total, bahwa meski sama-sama sipitinya dengan Cina Muslim yang sudah "pribumi", mengapa saya tetap dianggap pendatang

Rupanya nilai mereka bukan nilai saya, prinsip mereka bukan prinsip saya, yang mereka cintai tak saya cintai, bahkan saya enggan bergaul dengan mereka, saya eksklusif

Setelah memeluk Islam, saya bagian mereka, saya sekarang "sipit pribumi", berbagi nilai dan cita-cita, prinsip dan aqidah, saya mencintai mereka dan mereka mencintai saya

Tak perlu banyak bahasan saya pikir, bila anda sudah menyatu dengan nilai, prinsip, dan perasaan dengan mereka yang ingin kebaikan, anda "pribumi", dan tak mudah tersinggung

Sebab yang diakui sebagai pribumi adalah siapa yang memberi manfaat, yang mencintai, yang peduli, yang berbagi aqidah, rasa, dan cita-cita yang sama-sama mulianya

Indonesia punya nilai-nilai itu, dari Islam yang sudah dipeluk dan mengakar hingga sanubari ummat, Sesiapa yang mengajak taat, itulah pribumi, yang tak suka, saya tak tahu

Apalagi, nuansa pelaporan ini penuh dendam kesumat, standar ganda, dan aroma kebencian. Pembela penjajah dan semua kepentingannya, itulah orang lokal tapi kolonial ( Felix Siauw )

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Ini Buktinya Kalau Maag Bukan Dipicu Telat Makan

Apa jadinya kalau tengah melancong, gangguan pada lambung tiba-tiba muncul? Bukannya jadi liburan seru, malah menyedihkan tentunya. Penderita sakit maag memang perlu persiapan sebelum berangkat, dan tentunya lebih disiplin selama perjalanan.

Sebab, sakit maag atau tukak lambung, atau peradangan yang menyebabkan pencernaan terasa sakit, mulas, dan perih, ini bisa menyerang seseorang kapan dan di mana pun. Tapi tentunya ini bukan hambatan untuk mendatangi berbagai destinasi wisata, asal patuhi aturan dari ahli medis.

Dokter Epistel Simatupang, SpPD-KGEH, ahli penyakit dalam dari Rumah Sakit Siloam, TB Simatupang, Jakarta Selatan, mengatakan salah satu pemicu munculnya penyakit maag ialah konsumsi obat-obatan nonsteroidal anti-inflammatory drugs (NSAIDs), atau yang memiliki khasiat analgesik (pereda nyeri), antipiretik (penurun panas), dan anti-inflamasi (anti-radang).

Ini Buktinya Kalau Maag Bukan Dipicu Telat Makan

“Saat melakoni perjalanan, orang sering mengkonsumsi obat penghilang rasa sakit, seperti asam mefanamat atau aspirin, untuk menghilangkan nyeri, juga jamu-jamuan penepis gejala masik angin. Padahal kita tidak sadar kalau di dalamnya mungkin terdapat kandungan yang bakal berefek ke lambung, dan menyebabkan iritasi,” kata Epistel.

Telat makan, menurut dia, justru bukan masalah besar bagi para pelancong, terutama yang mengidap penyakit lambung. Peradangan di lambung ini tak bakal menghantui bila waktu makan terlewet. Misalnya, seseorang punya kebiasaan makan siang pukul 12.00 dan lantaran tengah melancong, ia lupa harus mengisi perut di waktu tersebut dan baru ingat satu atau dua jam setelahnya. “Tak masalah (telat makan). Sebab, penyakit lambung itu muncul karena ada pemicunya, yakni dari obat-obatan atau makanan yang menyebabkan maag,” kata Epistel.

Gangguan penyakit maag memang akan muncul kala seseorang menyantap makanan dengan jenis tertentu, yang memicu kenaikan asam lambung, seperti yang mengandung citarasa sangat asam atau sangat pedas –cabai, mangga muda, cuka, dan merica. Makanan tersebut bisa merangsang reaksi munculnya nyeri perut lantaran merusak dinding lambung. Karena itu, kala “menyatroni” penjaja kudapan di lokasi wisata, pelancong harus pintar-pintar memilih penganan yang sekiranya tak menyiksa tubuh. Juga bila ingin menyantap penganan khas yang pedas, penderita harus bisa mengontrol diri.

Selain itu, makanan yang sulit dicerna lambung turut menjadi momok utama bagi penderta maag. Contohnya, penganan yang mengandung lemak terlalu tinggi, seperti gorengan, kue, keju, dan cokelat. Buat para pegiat jalan-jalan, makanan ini memang menjadi godaan utama. Namun, supaya petualangan tak terganggu, sebaiknya menahan diri dulu menyantap penganan itu dalam porsi yang banyak. Cukup icip-icip supaya lidah tak penasaran.

Epistel menyampaikan apa saja pertolongan pertama yang perlu dilakukan kepada penderita maag:

1. Kunyah daun mint

Segera cari restoran yang menyediakan minuman dengan campuran daun mint, lalu kunyah daun tersebut. Khasiatnya diketahu bisa menetralkan asam lambung yang berlebihan.

2. Jangan stress

Istirahat cukup dan tidak banyak memikirkan hal-hal yang membikin stress. Sebab, tekanan bisa menaikkan asam lambung. Mengelola emosi penting buat meredakan gejala maag.

3. Minum air hangat

Air hangat bisa sedikit meredakan rasa nyeri yang muncul saat gangguan tiba-tiba menyerang.

4. Makan yang lunak

Segera mengkonsumsi makanan yang memiliki tekstur lunak, seperti bubur. Bubur sangat mudah dicerna lambung dan tidak membebani sistem pencernaan saat bekerja “menggiling” makanan.

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Save Money by Buying the Right Auto Navigation System for Your Needs

With so many GPS (global positioning satellite) devices and auto navigation systems on the market today how on earth is someone supposed to choose the system that will be best for you? The answer to that question isn't as difficult as you might think. It all lies in deciding what you will be using your GPS device to accomplish. You need to know where you will be using your device in order to use it properly. By this I mean will you be using your GPS system for driving, biking, hiking, boating, or 'off-roading'?

Occasionally you will find that your goals and desires of your auto navigation system or GPS will require use in more than one of these instances, the good news is there's a device for that too! Seriously, there is a device that is suitable for almost every possible need and use. If you plan to use your auto navigation system exclusively for driving your automobile, you should probably choose a system such as one of the following: Magellan RoadMate 2200T Portable Navigation System, Garmin StreetPilot c530 Automotive GPS, Tom Tom One, Tom Tom GO 910 Automotive GPS System, or Navman iCN 750 Vehicle Navigation with Camera. These systems each offer something unique to consumers while also delivering some of the same popular features that consumer's love. Some of those features include turn-by-turn directions, landmark identification, important stops and destinations along your route, and popular restaurants along the way.

Save Money by Buying the Right Auto Navigation System for Your Needs

If you want something that is a little more versatile than your typical stand-alone navigation system or GPS then you might want to check out the many options afforded by the handheld GPS systems on the market today. Many of these will require an upgrade of some sort in order to be useful for turn-by-turn destination information but are excellent for those taking the fun off the beaten path and off road. For those who love adventure in the great outdoors the following handheld GPS systems offer an excellent choice for keeping you on track and in the know: Garmin eTrex Vista Cx Color Handheld GPS Unit, Magellan eXplorist 600, and Lowrance iFinder Hunt Color.

For those who currently own a laptop or PDA software and hardware add ons can turn your device into a GPS system. These offer a more affordable option to the stand-alone navigation system and are an attractive incentive to many potential consumers. You will also find the widest variety of features within this particular category. Most of these devices offer the hardware as well as the necessary mapping software as part of the package. This allows them to have relative portability while also offering the full features of the stand-alone navigation systems. Some of the laptop or Palm systems that you may wish to consider are the following: Garmin CF Que 1620 Compact Flash GPS, Tom Tom Navigator 6 Bluetooth, DeLorme Earthmate Blue Logger, and the Garmin Mobile 20 Smartphone GPS System.

These are by no means all inclusive of the many wonderful and exciting products that are available in today's market for those interested in purchasing an auto navigation system. You should also keep in mind that new technologies emerge on a daily basis. With that in mind, prices on existing technologies are steadily decreasing, as prices on new items are often still quite high. It is very possible to get a great deal by shopping last year's top of the line navigation toy and skipping the high-end navigation gadgets of the current year.

Another way to save money on navigational aids and devices is not to shop among the top of the line devices. Instead of shopping for those that are priced highest, elect devices within the middle of the price range. These devices generally offer the same excellent quality as the more expensive devices without the over inflated price tags. You should also remember not to pay extra for features that you won't be using. Having an extra feature or two shouldn't be a selling point if you won't be using those features.

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Breathing and Relaxing

You don't need to fall into the stress mode of life. You can use breath to relax, rather than stress, your mind and body. Yoga helps you to relearn that natural state that your body and mind want to be in: relaxation.

Deep breathing is both calming and energizing. The energy you feel from a few minutes of careful breathe is not nervous or hyper, but that calm, steady energy we all need. Slow, steady, and quiet breathing gives a message to your nervous system: Be calm.

Whole books have been written on yoga breathing. Here is one 5-minute Breath Break. (Read through the instructions several times before you try the practice.)

Breathing and Relaxing

  • 1. Sit with your spine as straight as possible. Use a chair if necessary but don't slump into it. Feet flat on the floor with knees directly over the center of your feet. Use a book or cushion under your feet if they do not rest comfortably on the floor. Hands are on the tops of your legs.
  • 2. Close your eyes gently and let them rest behind closed lids.
  • 3. Think about your ribs, at the front, back, and at the sides of your body. Your lungs are behind those ribs.
  • 4. Feel your lungs filling up, your ribs expanding out and up. Feel your lungs emptying, your ribs coming back down and in. Don't push the breath.
  • 5. The first few times you do this, do it for 2 to 3 minutes, then do it for up to 5 to 10 minutes. At first, set aside a time at least once a day to do this. When you learn how good it makes you feel, you'll want to do it at other times as well.
Just as one stressful situation goes into your next challenge, relaxing for a few minutes every day gradually carries over into the rest of your daily life and activities.

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The Obvious Benefit of Auto Navigation Systems

If you've been in the market for a car, truck, or SUV recently, then I'm sure you've seen the vast number of vehicles sporting shiny new auto navigation systems as part of this or that package upgrade. These systems are delightfully handy when you find yourself stuck in traffic that is moving slower than the snail that just passed by or that roads are closing due to nasty weather or traffic pile ups. The truth of the matter is that they can come in equally handy when faced with every day driving if you allow them to be.

Many people unfortunately purchase these systems because they seem like a good idea at the time and then never really get their money's worth. Very few investments in technology are worthy if you aren't going to at least get your money's worth. Auto navigation systems are great when you find yourself lost in the woods so to speak, but they can help you find alternate routes when traffic is busy on your traditional drive to the grocery store. They can help you avoid roads that have been closed for maintenance, or even find a quick way around work that is being performed along your route. These devices can also help you find shorter routes to events and such than you may have been aware existed before and they aren't commanding nearly the price they brought in a mere two years ago. In other words, this convenience is becoming much more affordable.

The Obvious Benefit of Auto Navigation Systems

One thing you must keep in mind when considering a new car or a new auto navigation system for an existing car is how much you think you will actually use your system. Even if you save it for emergency use alone, it is quite possible that in an emergency this nifty device will be worth ten times what you originally paid for it because it could save jobs, time, or even lives (particularly if you are lost and searching for a hospital). For me, it is hard to put a price tag on the comfort that owning a device such as this would bring but it is definitely worth the $500-$1,000 that is currently being charged. Keep in mind that when these systems first hit the market $1,000 was on the ultra low end.

If you never use this system and only get it because it looks cool, then you definitely are not getting your money's worth. Technology is only good when it's useful to someone. Sitting there unused it is assisting no one and is essentially a waste of money. On the other end of the spectrum however, you have people like me. By 'like me' I mean those of us who could get helplessly lost and flustered finding our way out of the driveway on dark and moonless nights. I use my auto navigation system like an extra pair of eyes. My system is not the top of the line system that advertises an uncanny ability to help you parallel park your car, but it is nice enough to help me figure out where I am and how to get where I'm going from there. For me, that is exactly enough to be worth every penny.

Beyond that, my navigation system doesn't require tricky folds or my pulling off onto the shoulder in order to read. It talks to me (without losing it's temper) and tells me where to go, I love that about my system. I don't know about the rest of you, but map reading is not something I've ever been gifted at. That fact may have a little to do with the fact that it was not something I was ever terribly interested in. Couple that with my poor attention to landmarks and I was a driving disaster. Literally, I got lost at least once, if not twice a week before making the move into the modern world of navigation. I have absolutely no regrets and while I can't promise that you will love your auto navigation system as much as I love mine (all systems are not created equal), I can pretty much bet that your driving, particularly on long road trips, will go much more smoothly than without one.

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Yoga exercises strengthen your body and make it more flexible

Exercises. Yoga exercises strengthen your body and make it more flexible. Yoga also calms your mind and gives you energy. In active sports or strenuous exercises, you use up energy. In yoga classes, students report that they feel tranquil after a class, yet have more energy. Slow and steady motion is the key to going into or coming out of the postures. You hold a yoga pose for several seconds or even minutes and give attention to full, quiet breath. Your yoga instructor will always encourage you to relax as the exercises are being done.

Yoga exercises strengthen your body and make it more flexible

You gently place your body into yoga postures. Done correctly, there's very little chance of injury or muscle stress. A particular asana is not repeated dozens of times, nor are you ever encouraged to push yourself too much.

A yoga session is designed for balance. You stretch to the right and then to the left. You bend back and then forward. You learn to recognize when one side is stronger or more flexible than the other. Thus harmony and balance are achieved with yoga practice.

People of all ages can practice yoga exercises. They are easily modified to meet your needs and physical condition. Don't be put off by the difficult looking postures you may see in a yoga book. A skilled teacher can adapt most asanas by using chairs, cushions, even a wall or other props. A yoga practice can be tailor-made just for you. If something is really impossible for you to do, just forget it. Never compete with yourself or others. Yoga is a stress-free but powerful way to exercise.

Yoga is good for increasing your flexibility and relieving stress, but it doesn't take the place of aerobic exercise. You should still do regular, aerobic exercise, which increases your cardiovascular fitness, helps you lose weight, and, for people with non-insulin-dependent (type II) diabetes at least, improves blood glucose control.

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Hatha Yoga

Hatha yoga is an ancient hindu system of working with the human nervous system. Because it releases tension and endows one with renewed energy, far too many 20th century people, yoga teachers included, have come to look upon the venerable Indian physical science as solely an exercise for health and vitality of mind and body. It is that, but it is also much more. Hatha yoga practices are more spiritual than physical, more subtle than gross, more a means of understanding than an exotic way to relieve stress or limber up the body.

Hatha Yoga

The sages who developed hatha yoga designed it as a way to gain conscious control of our life energies, a way to go within, to harmonize the external so the innermost Self could be encountered. To them, it was about states of consciousness, about living a divine life, and it was a preparation for meditation.

As you perform the asanas, concentrate on feeling the energies within the nerve currents. Sensitize yourself to knowing when the body has been in each position long enough to tune the nerve currents involved. Then shift smoothly into the next asana. It's like a dance, a deliberate, fluid dance. During all postures, inhale using the diaphragm, not the chest muscles. Do not stretch unduly or force the body. Relax into the poses. Don't worry if you can't perform them all perfectly. In time, you will find the body becoming more flexible and supple. Free the mind of thoughts and tensions. You will be more aware, more alive, more serene.

While there are many more complex hatha yoga routines, these twenty-four asanas provide a balanced system for daily use. For the simple purpose of quieting the mind in preparation for meditation, this is all you will ever need. For best results, hatha yoga should be taught personally by a qualified teacher. These instructions and drawings are meant only as a rudimentary aid. For more elaborate regimens, inquire at a recognized school specializing in hatha yoga.

The scene of hatha yoga has a spiritual purpose - to balance physical and physic energies in preparation for meditation. It is not only meant to make us young, beautiful or creative, but to aid us in quieting the mind, body and emotions that we may awaken enlightened consciousness & know the Self within.

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Dealing with Asperger Syndrome

Asperger Syndrome is a relatively mild form of autism that effects people in different ways than regular autism. Because it usually does not affect language, many people with Asperger Syndrome go undiagnosed. This is the one form of autism that is usually not caught at an early age and is instead a disorder that develops later in life. Asperger Syndrome, however, can be a very difficult condition to have, so as soon as you suspect yourself or your child of having communication and social behavior problems, see your family doctor.

Asperger Syndrome

Many famous and successful people were diagnosed with Asperger Syndrome. Historians even suggest that Einstein and Mozart each suffered from this disorder. It is important to note that no form of autism is a form of mental retardation. In fact, most people with Asperger Syndrome are very intelligent. Asperger Syndrome does not dictate mental ability, but rather makes it difficult for people to communicate in social settings, much in the same way a typical autistic child has trouble with behavior in groups. When this disorder goes undiagnosed, children do not get the help they need, leading to problems in school such as bullying. Most children are relieved to find out they have Asperger Syndrome instead of just thinking they are less of a person. By getting diagnosed, not only can you or your child put a name to the problems, but it is then also possible to get treated to improve your overall situation.

Some symptoms to watch out for if you suspect Asperger Syndrome are some of the same symptoms that people with full-blown autism experience. This includes social confusion, first and foremost. Many people with Asperger Syndrome find it very difficult to deal with transition or change, wanting everything to stay the same. A quickly changing environment is especially confusing. People with Asperger Syndrome also may say rude or inappropriate things when they don't mean to do so, and may not be able to understand others' thought processes. Another common trait they share with autistic individuals is fixation, although people with Asperger Syndrome usually have more control over their fixations, which take the form of highly focused interests. If you suspect yourself or a loved one of this disorder, these are just a few of the signs for which you should be watching. You doctor should be able to answer further questions and provide both reading material and treatment for this disorder.

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Doctors and Diagnosing Autism

When a doctor first suggests that your child has autism, your immediate reaction might be disbelief and the urge to seek a second, third, or even fourth opinion. Because autism is so different in every child, it is a tricky disorder to diagnose. However, there are a few key ways in which doctors can efficiently identify autism in children, and if your infant or toddler is showing any of these signs of autism, you should visit your pediatrician immediately to express your concerns.

Doctors and Diagnosing Autism

Autism occurs at a young age, rather than being a disorder an older child might develop. It is usually detected before the age of three, and many times much earlier. The first signs or autism are usually delays or regression in speech communication. Another early sign is abnormal behavior in group play situations and other social situations. The first step to diagnosing autism is a thorough physical examination as well as a review of family history by a specialist. Although your regular pediatrician will be able to spot unusual behavior, you'll want your child to be examined by a professional who specializes in autism and other similar diseases to make sure your child is properly diagnosed.

The next step includes hearing tests. Sine language and social skill delays could be due to inadequate auditory sensations. There are two types of auditory tests, one of which records the tones a child can hear and the other of which requires sedation and measures the brain response to certain tones. Of course, the first method is preferred, since it does not require any use of a sedative. After auditory testing, your doctor may encourage testing your child for Fragile X syndrome, which often times goes hand in hand with autism. Metabolism can also be evaluated. To do this, your doctor will need a blood or urine sample to analyze DNA.

An MRI or CAT scan can also be helpful in diagnosing autism. The important thing is to work with doctors you trust. Second opinions can be very helpful, but when your child has been diagnosed, stick with one doctor so that treatment is uniform and so that your child will get used to this person. Autism is difficult to diagnose and even more difficult to treat, so remember that you should begin to learn as much as possible about the disorder as soon as your doctor identifies it. If you have yet to speak with your doctor about abnormal behavior in your child, do so immediately. By detecting autism early, you give your child a better chance at becoming a high-functioning individual with much more opportunities in life.

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Cinta Ditolak Dukun Bertindak

Bergaul dan bersosialisasi memang penting. Namun jangan terlalu bersemangat untuk memamerkan kebahagiaan rumah tangga di muka umum.

Kamu takkan tahu, mungin saj ada orang yang tidak suka dan dengki dengan kebahagiaan tersebut. Terlebih jika perasaan tidak suka dan dengki itu digunakan sebagai alasan untuk menyakiti orang.

Seperti yang terjadi pada seorang pria yang rumah tangganya hampir rusak akibat sihir. pemicunya ternyata si pria menolak cinta wanita yang menjadi rekan kerjanya.

Ini kisahnya

Cinta Ditolak Dukun Bertindak

Berawal dari SMS

Saya sudah menikah selama hampir 15 tahun dan dikaruniai 4 anak. Pada suatu pagi saya menerima SMS dari seorang karyawati di tempat kerja saya menanyakan kabar saya yang tidak sehat. Saya memang tidak pernah menyimpan setiap nomor telepon perempuan lain kecuali karyawati lain untuk memudahkan urusan kerja.

Istri saya memang kuat indera keenamnya. Dia bisa tahu bahwa karyawati itu bukan teman perempuan yang dia kenal. Saya pun memberitahu dia saya juga tak kenal. Sebab memang saya tak kenal. Namun istri saya diam saja.

Ketika saya masuk kerja, si karyawati ini tanya kenapa tak balas SMS dia. Saya hanya bilang saya tak tahu karena nomornya tidak ada dalam kontak saya.

Selalu Cerita Kebaikan Istri

Hubungan saya dan istri memang baik. Selain ramah, istri saya memang seorang yang periang. Tanggung jawab dia pada saya dan anak-anak memang tak perlu diragukan. Dan saya selalu menceritakan pada kawan-kawan saya bahwa istri saya memang tiada gantinya. Jika ditakdirkan beristri lagi, saya akan melakukannya jika istri saya sudah meninggal dunia. Itupun saya merasa mustahil ada wanita yang bisa menggantikan tempatnya. Rupanya pernyataan saya telah menimbulkan rasa tak senang pada karyawati tersebut.

Si Karyawati Mulai Panggil Sayang

Pada suatu hari si karyawati tersebut dapat pindah kerja di kota lain. Karena saya memang tipe orang yang ramah, saya suka menanyakan kabar kawan-kawan, baik laki-laki atau perempuan, tua atau muda. Saya pun mengirim SMS untuk menanyakan kabar dia. Demi Allah, tidak ada sekelumit pun rasa saya suka atau mencintai karyawati tersebut. Sejak itu, karyawati itu selalu menghubungi saya dan tanpa saya sadari dia memanggil saya dengan panggilan 'sayang'.

Saya pun terhenyak pada awalnya. Kalau orang sudah panggil kita sayang, apalagi maknanya. Tetapi hubungan dengan istri masih baik. Ketika Lebaran tiba, karyawati tersebut menghubungi saya dan menanyakan apakah saya ingin berkunjung ke rumahnya. Saya tak tahu seperti ada sesuatu yang mendesak saya untuk pergi. Saya pun pergi ditemani dengan anak saya.

Ketaatan Istri Membongkar Rahasia

Lama kelamaan istri mencium perbuatan saya. Istri suruh saya tukar nomor telepon. Saya pun menggantinya. Saya ikut segala permintaan istri sebab saya sayang dia. Dan yang anehnya saya tak tahu kekuatan dari mana saya bisa beli nomor dan ponsel lain. Tapi tak lama. Betul juga kata orang, naluri seorang istri itu jangan dibuat main-main.

Saya tahu istri saya selalu berdoa dan saya selalu mendengar dalam doanya ada tangisan. Hati saya pilu mendengar isak istri saya, tapi ada sesuatu yang berbisik agar membiarkan saja istri saya. Solat hajat dan bacaan yasin terus dilakukan oleh istri dan anak-anak. Dan tak lama setelah itu rahasia pun terbongkar.

Ketika istri tahu, dia mengajak saya menemui karyawati tersebut. Saya ikut. Dalam mobil istri menyuruh saya melepaskan karyawati itu. Tapi demi Allah, saya sangat sayang istri saya. Saya takkan melepaskan dia kecuali maut memisahkan kami. Istri saya memang cerdik. Segala doa dia Allah kabulkan. Kami bisa ketemu dengan karyawati tersebut tapi dia lari ketika saya menghampiri istri saya. Seperti ada sesuatu yang membuat karyawati itu takut. Kami kemudian pulang. Dan sejak itu kepercayaan istri pada saya mulai berkurang. Walau berkali-kali saya bilang saya tidak ada hubungan apa-apa dengan karyawati tersebut.

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